That’s right ladies…I am now enlightened.  A friend of mine was teaching a course the other day on what men really want and how to build a relationship full of effective communication and love.  I thought: ‘Why would I want to?’ This was not a man bashing evening at all!   … and so I want to share with you a few little items that I picked up.

  1. Men love to hear a women she is into talk about her passions.  Pick a passion….figure out what you love and then talk about it.  The reason for this is because men process passion from the same place they process music from.  Passion is like music to a mans ears! The funny thing about this is that a man also processes nagging from that very same place (maybe we shouldn’t stop nagging after all)
  2. The 30 second rule. This one is good.  When you ask your man or any man for that matter an important question, ask your question and then shut up… just shut up for 30 seconds! When you ask a man a question he doesn’t process it quite like the female half, he is actually processing what you just asked…imagine that…he is thinking about it. You have just asked an important question and he is thinking of the right answer.  If you decide to open that mouth of yours and rephrase this question there is a really big chance that you are going to mix him up and he won’t know what question to answer or what you’re really asking him….Just give him 30 seconds.
  3. Okay, now for what really gets a man going.  For a man there are two sets of things that turn him on.. One is attraction and the other is charm and enchantment.  So what are those things that really get him going?

Attraction (This just makes him want to have sex with you)

  • Shiny hair
  • Shapely body
  • Sensuality
  • Sexual Energy

Charm and Enchantment (Here’s the good stuff)

  • Self Confidence
  • Authenticity
  • Passion
  • Receptivity

There are the highlights.  If you want to find out more about this very interesting stuff there are courses you can take.  Go to the website www.understandmen.com to take a look.

Good luck!